Demetria Devonne Lovato, the American singer opened up on their engagement with Max Lewis Ehrich, who is an American actor cum singer. The singer has detailed the way engagement’s dissolvement of the ex- pair has helped her out and how they found their true selves.
Notably, Demi noted finally the singer is now capable to stand on their own self and requires nobody to actually help and authenticate her. They said, “I was able to stand on my own two feet without needing someone else to validate me or to make me feel accepted.”
While appearing for an Interview with ‘The 19th’ on their coming out journey, Lovato shared her experiences on discovering herself within them. They also spoke on how this pandemic turned to be beneficial for them in their moving-out journey and also about their split with their ex-beau.
The singer explained, “I was able to stand on my own two feet without needing someone else to validate me or to make me feel accepted. And when I said goodbye to that relationship, I also said goodbye to everything that was holding me back from being my most authentic self.”
In March 2020, Demi claims that they began to find themselves as a non-binary human, soon while the pandemic began. Although, they jumped into a relationship with Max, and hence all this led the singer to neglect this point about themselves.
Also, Lovato added and clarified, “I met someone and I got into this straight relationship, and that was great, but that led me to ignore all the parts of myself that I didn’t think were digestible for my partner at the time, who ended up becoming my fiancé.”
The pair dated each other for about seven months and finally parted their ways in September, the same year. Further, in May, the singer openly revealed that they are a non-binary individual and thus Demi soon changed their pronouns to they/them.
The singer also clarifies that they completely believe in their gender journey to last forever. They said, “There might be a time where I identify as trans. I don’t know what this looks like for me. There might be a time where I identify as non-binary and gender-nonconforming my entire life.”
The TV star also noted, “Or maybe there’s a period of time when I get older that I identify as a woman, I don’t know what that looks like, but for me, at this moment right now, this is how I identify.”
In continuation, Demi also mentioned that this won’t be ever going go back one way or another. Thus, they noted, “And I have a feeling that it’s not going to ever go back to one way or the other, but it’s about keeping it open and free and just I’m a very fluid person, and so that goes with how I express myself as well.”
In July, the actor, notably, through their Instagram profile wrote a note and made it clear that the use of some new pronouns can be much tough to remember.
Lovato claimed that there are many people who actually try to make efforts to correct their genders. But, they all understand if they ‘make a mistake.’ They further added and stated that they ‘accidentally misgender’ themselves many times, too.
Demi wrote, “If you misgender me, that’s okay. I accidentally misgender myself sometimes! It’s a huge transition to change the pronouns I’ve used for myself my entire life. And it’s difficult to remember sometimes!”
The actor continued to mention, “As long as you keep trying to respect my truth, and as long as I remember my truth, the shift will come naturally. I’m just grateful for your effort in trying to remember what means so much to my healing process.”
Yet, this was not the end to Lovato’s message, they further wrote, “They understand that pronoun changes can be confusing for some and difficult to remember for others, but that what matters is putting in the effort.”
Later, the singer said, “It’s all about your intention. It’s important to me that you try, but if you make a mistake, it’s okay 😊🙏🏼💞 .” In addition, the singer also attached a few of the hashtags, such as #NonBinaryAwarenessWeek. “Remember that I love you, and to keep going 🤟🏼.”
In June, while speaking in an interview, Lovato said, “I really believe that when I overdosed in 2018, it was because I was ignoring the truth. I went to such great lengths to suppress who I really am to fit this sexy, feminine pop star and actress image that others had assigned for me that I never truly identified with. I did it though because I thought that’s how it was supposed to be.”
However, back in June, the singer was spotted with Noah Cyrus, holding their hands together and sparked to their relationship rumors. The duo was photographed at Six Flags, few months later their love rumors were in the highlights of the media.
Noah Cyrus, the younger sister of Miley Cyrus, and she collaborated with Demi for her track “Easy” for the latest album ‘Dancing with the Devil… the Art of Starting Over.’ That time, one of the Sources noted, “At the time that their behavior during the recording sessions had people wondering whether they were more than just friends.”
Thus, amid their dating rumors and hangout, an Insider mentioned, “They’re very close and have been hanging out.” Another source clarified that their rumors are ‘weird’ and they both are just good freinds and stated, They have dinner sometimes, but they’re not romantic. They got together for this song that sorta came together a bit last minute, and they hang out.”
However, during the YouTube Pride 2021 event, both, Demi and Noah in collaboration performed and the Trans Chorus of Los Angeles joined the musicians for the performance.
Later, Demi Lovato shared a picture with Noah and wrote, “Thank you @noahcyrus for closing out the night w me for @youtube’s pride 2021 celebration I’m so happy we finally got to sing our song together #Easy,” and thank her.